5 Ways to Get a Girlfriend

Truth is: life is better when you have someone to share it with.  If you haven’t been in a relationship for a while, just got out of one, or are new to dating, then you might be wondering how to get a girlfriend. 

 

Are you hoping to find a girl who you can be in a steady relationship with? 

 

So if you’re sick of being single and want a girlfriend to wake up next to every morning then keep reading…

BE SURE AND EVALUATE IF YOU REALLY WANT A GIRLFRIEND

 

 

                                          

 

If you haven’t had success getting a girlfriend, the reason could be that you are not ready for one.  Now, if you are just looking for a casual hookup or some passion, that’s fine.  But having a girlfriend is a commitment, and commitment requires some stability and effort.  

 

Women can sense when a man is not ready for commitment from miles away.  So, before you jump into the dating game, ask yourself these questions to see if you are ready for a girlfriend:

 

  • Is your life stable?
  • Are you over your ex?
  • Do you have plans/goals for the future?

 

Get these things in order and you’ll be ready to start looking for a girlfriend.

WHERE TO LOOK FOR A GIRLFRIEND

 

                                           

 

One of the biggest mistakes that men make when looking for a girlfriend is limiting themselves to bars and clubs. Yes, bars are a good place to meet girls, but not necessarily to meet a girlfriend.

 

There are a few reasons why bars are terrible places to find a girlfriend.  First off, women know that you are on the prowl, so their defenses are up.  You’ll probably end up wasting your time on dates with women who aren’t compatible with you.

 

You can try taking a class, volunteer for a good cause, join a club, or go to book readings or art openings. 

 

The benefit of meeting women at these social gatherings is that you will already share some of the same interests and have something to talk about, so breaking the ice is easy.

AVOID BEING AFRAID TO FAIL

 

                                          

 

 

Remember, fear of rejection is extremely irrational. If you see a hot girl, go and talk to her. Convey her your intentions right away.

 

Don't digress, no matter what, "Hi, you are cute and I came here to know who you really are." You are looking for a girlfriend, not a friend who is a 'girl'.

GIVE HER A GENUINE COMPLIMENT

 

                                         

 

Tell her exactly why you approached her and be as specific if you can. Use the first think you noticed about her that attracted you. Perhaps it’s her her cute smile, her dimples, or if you see her a lot maybe this time her hair is tied back for the first time. 

 

If she’s a stranger and you meet her in the day, “Hey, I know this is random but I just walked past you and thought I have to go back and talk to that girl.”

MAKE HER LIKE YOU BY BEING YOURSELF

 

                                           

 

You may not realise this but the reason you’ve been stuck with how to get a girlfriend is because you are not yourself around the women you’re attracted to.

 

You’ve avoided confrontation, you’ve avoided teasing and you have never felt comfortable about expressing your true burning sexual desire for the girls you’re attracted to.

 

Now that you finally understand this the seas will part, water will turn into wine and you will walk on water through the leggy gates of heaven and into the land of milk and honey!