7 Things Strong and Independent Women Don’t Give A Damn About

 

GIVING A DAMN ABOUT FASHION

 

Some women love fashion for the sake of the art, and that’s different. But “keeping up with the Joneses” is not something women should take particular pride in. The purchase of an overpriced garment – one that will be “out of fashion” in a month or two, is definitely not something a strong woman should give a damn about!

 

GIVING A DAMN ABOUT A BAD “EX”

 

This writer is a man, and one that has no quibbles about giving women a heads-up in the “class” category. Hey, when the majority of crimes are committed by men – including aforementioned, ubiquitous sexual harassment – there should be faint argument otherwise.

That said, strong woman, despite all of your good intentions, stop giving a damn about that unsavory character you once called a “boyfriend.”

 

GIVING A DAMN ABOUT “STAYING IN YOUR PLACE”

 

This is not 1916, it’s 2016. Women should not feel obliged to remain content with “keeping quiet,” “keeping about the household,” and other antiquated, compartmentalized roles they “should” have. Give us all a break. Strong woman, you don’t need to “stay in your place;” quite the contrary, we need your good head and heart to venture outside of it.

 

GIVING A DAMN ABOUT TOXIC RELATIONSHIPS

 

Kind of related to #2, but more broad in scope. Most women are incredibly empathetic and loyal, and some are prone to avoid conflict with whoever may be toxic in their life. The truth is that some people are bad for us, even if they do not recognize it.

 

GIVING A DAMN ABOUT MISTAKES MADE

 

This one applied to both sexes, but strong women shouldn’t get too carried away by past mistakes. As mentioned, women have a tendency to “feel” a bit deeper than their male counterparts; this includes feeling mistakes for a period of time far beyond committing them. Rest assured, strong woman, you’ve got much to offer beyond some silly mistake.

 

GIVING A DAMN ABOUT FACEBOOK, TWITTER, SNAPCHAT…

 

In itself, there is nothing wrong with social media…it is just a tool. But, as with many other things people have managed to somehow screw up, we manipulate the tool to be something for which it wasn’t designed.

The prolific use of social media has had a “net negative” effect for many women, particularly teens and young adults. The simply reason is that we place far too much emphasis on who pays attention to us (i.e. “likes” or “friends”). Who cares? Be you strong woman, be you!

 

GIVING A DAMN ABOUT A SO-CALLED “PERFECT BODY”

 

Ok…first off, this doesn’t exist. What exactly is a “perfect body”? Who gets to decide what constitutes a “perfect body”? This writer doesn’t particularly care for a slim, toned look for females; yet, it is so heavily propagated in a myriad of media outlets.

It’s difficult to explain exactly why this is, but one theory is money. There’s a lot of revenue in fashion (surprise!) and in publishing, and the “forces that be” have decided for us what body form to emulate and admire. Who gives a damn?